I haven't been to an interview for a few years now and if I'm honest I was actually turned down for the last two jobs I went for! They were both a bit of a wild punt though, so I wasn't too gutted.
Interviews are a very weird experience. I've been on both ends of plenty - interviewer and interviewee, that is - and so maybe I'm in a position to give a few slightly off-the-wall tips that you might not find elsewhere...
Appearance and posture matters - I once turned down a guy because, knowing that there were two candidates and two positions, he turned up scruffy, unshaven and sat in the chair like he was in a cinema. We had to wonder just how conscientious he would be on the job if he was that slack at the interview!
Sometimes interviews are completely random - Yes, sometimes you will be turned down for reasons that you just don't have a clue about. It might be something about you that reminded one of the panel of somebody they knew years ago, or it might be that they're looking for something very specific. Also, sometimes - a lot of the time, really - interviews are just a little bit fixed. Nobody likes to admit it but it's true. Even in the Church!
The key word is 'likeable' - Don't try too hard to appear smart, or experienced or to nail a certain point. Just relax. If you are smart and experienced, believe me it will come across, and if you try to hard to spin a certain image, then it could well backfire. Just try to be likeable. That goes a very long way.
Don't imply that you will single-handedly transform the whole organisation if you're hired - By all means talk about how well you will do the job, but it's very important not to give interviewers the impression that hiring you would mean you making them look bad by trying to change the world. Maybe the organisation does need a bit of a kick up the pants, but here's the thing - a lot of interviewers have egos, and they won't hire people who they think will come in and show them up! Interviewing can be as much about massaging the egos of the interviewers as about publicising yourself.
Don't have a pop at your current employer - I was always suspicious of people who sat in interviews and told me how awful their current job was. It doesn't make you look hard working, yet persecuted, and it won't explain away that bad reference. Make sure the people you ask to give you a reference actually respect your work. If you have to carry a bad reference to an interview, the best thing to do is a mea cupla. Acknowledge your mistakes, talk about what you would do differently in the future and, above all, be likeable!
If you are completely beaten by a question, don't try to waffle - If you don't know the answer it will quickly be apparent. Obviously it's better to know the answer, but we're all beaten by a question occasionally. The key thing is not to lose your cool. Interviewers want to see that when you're in a difficult spot you don't lose your cool. Frustration, nerves or waffle are all to be avoided here. Okay, so you don't know the answer, but you're not going to lose any sleep over it!
If you can think of any more, feel free to use the combox...
A top peer and co-chair of the Conservative party, Baroness Warsi, has warned that Britain is under threat from a rising tide of militant secularisation. She believes that Religion is being "sidelined, marginalised and downgraded in the public sphere."
Baroness Warsi's thoughts echo those had by a great many of us in recent years. Indeed, it's a topic we've touched on here more than a few times. Like here.
That there has been a reinvigoration of secularism and atheism in the last decade (read: since September 11th 2001) is in no doubt at all, but I wonder if we are now starting to see the first strains of a backlash. I wonder if we are starting to see religion pushing back and telling the world that we still have something positive to offer and that we're a very long way form being defeated.
Maybe something to talk to your young people about...?
VATICAN CITY (CNA/EWTN News)—Christian families should be a happy and loving environment in which young people can discern calls to the priesthood or religious life, Pope Benedict XVI says in his message for the World Day of Prayers for Vocations.
"Families are not only the privileged place for human and Christian formation; they can also be 'the primary and most excellent seed bed of vocations to a life of consecration to the Kingdom of God,' by helping their members to see, precisely within the family, the beauty and the importance of the priesthood and the consecrated life," the Pope said on Feb. 13.
The 49th World Day of Prayer for Vocations will be celebrated on April 29 with the theme "Vocations, the Gift of the Love of God." The Pope's message, which was released Feb. 13, comes at a time when vocations to the priesthood in most Western countries are on the rise.
In order for that to continue, says the Pope, the Church must...
The National Catholic Register has an interesting piece about a Pro-Life movie called October Baby which opens in March in the US. Here's a slice
When filmmakers Jon and Andrew Erwin tackled October Baby, they knew that their movie was imitating life. The film is loosely based on the life of abortion survivor Gianna Jessen.
What they didn't know is that their art was imitating life in more ways than one, through the story of one of the film's actresses.
The part road-trip, part-romance drama follows the journey of Hannah, a college freshman who learns that she was adopted and the survivor of a failed abortion attempt. She sets out to find her birth mother and ends up learning a lesson about forgiveness. The film is being distributed by Sony's Provident Films and opens in theaters nationwide March 23. Among its stars, it features actors Jon Schneider and Jasmine Guy.
YCW have created a Lent Calendar which enables young people to take time to see, judge and take action to change their realities by taking simple steps each day. Its free, simple but an effective resource to enable young people to engage in the Lenten season. Here's the link.
Hope it works!
ADMIN EDIT: Brilliant. Thanks to YCW for this. We've edited the post slightly for the front page
Well, there is now an online store where you can get yourself - and your group - some merchandise. Merchandise like clothing, keyrings, candles, rosaries, lanyards and more...
A third element, that has an increasingly natural and central place in World Youth Days and in the spirituality that arises from them, is adoration. I still look back to that unforgettable moment during my visit to the United Kingdom, when tens of thousands of predominantly young people in Hyde Park responded in eloquent silence to the Lord's sacramental presence, in adoration. The same thing happened again on a smaller scale in Zagreb and then again in Madrid, after the thunderstorm which almost ruined the whole night vigil through the failure of the microphones. God is indeed ever-present. But again, the physical presence of the risen Christ is something different, something new. The risen Lord enters into our midst. And then we can do no other than say, with Saint Thomas: my Lord and my God! Adoration is primarily an act of faith - the act of faith as such. God is not just some possible or impossible hypothesis concerning the origin of all things. He is present. And if he is present, then I bow down before him. Then my intellect and will and heart open up towards him and from him. In the risen Christ, the incarnate God is present, who suffered for us because he loves us. We enter this certainty of God's tangible love for us with love in our own hearts. This is adoration, and this then determines my life. Only thus can I celebrate the Eucharist correctly and receive the body of the Lord rightly.
I remember Hyde Park very well. I was sitting toward the end of one of the rows during the Adoration, and I couldn't quite kneel down where I was so I...
During the season of Lent - which starts on Wednesday, of course! - the music for Mass changes a fair bit. This can be a little tricky to navigate for inexperienced music ministers, but fear not because CatholicYouthMinistry.com - a site run by LifeTeen which we really like - has a great article guiding you through it all and giving you a few pointers and suggestions.
Last week, Archbishop Vincent Nichols gave a lecture called 'God in the City.' As ICN report, the speech examined how faith communities can individually and jointly work towards a more humane, just and compassionate society.
More specifically, the speech looked at how the different institutions contribute toward this.
You can read the full speech at the above link. It gets me thinking about how youth ministry contributes toward this. Hopefully we form young people to be able to tackle their own problems with the mind of faith, and hopefully we form them to be people who care about what's going on around them.
I guess it's worth remembering that we live in a complicated world and that it's that world that we're trying to equip young people to go out and tackle. This affects how intensely and passionately we work, but it also affects the content and syllabus of our work too.
I'm sure there are far, far more observations to be had here, but alas, it's a busy week...
The media are starting to notice Flame Congress in a big way now which is awesome. This from ICN...
More than 10,000 young people are getting ready to converge on Wembley Stadium next month, in what looks set to be the largest gathering of young Catholics ever to take place in England and Wales.
Plans for the Flame Congress were unveiled at a press conference at the Bishops Conference headquarters in London on Thursday.
The event has been inspired by the tremendous reception given to Pope Benedict during his 2010 visit - his welcome by thousands of young people in the Piazza outside Westminster Cathedral, the Big Assembly at St Mary's in Twickenham, and the huge gathering in Hyde Park.
The timing also chimes well with the London Olympics. Pope John Paul II - himself a keen sportsman - wrote about the relationship between sport and faith. Among the speakers giving testimony will be several Olympians and Paralympians.
James Parker, the Catholic Church's Executive Coordinator for the 2012 Games, who is currently organising hundreds of events in church communities around the country preparing for the Olympics, said: "this is once-in-a-lifetime global event which is really capturing the imagination of everyone and it has a special calling for young people. There will be opportunities to welcome the stranger, serve others, and be the hands of Christ during the 2012 Games."
Fr Dominic Howarth, Flame Congress coordinator said he hoped people would return to their communities after the Congress filled with fresh hope and inspiration. He added that young people from all denominations are welcome to take part.
The day-long event which will include music, animated by Edwin Fawcett, who has composed a special anthem for the day; drama, dance, and speakers - among them Paschal Uche, Barry and Margaret Mizen, Fr Timothy Radcliffe, on the theme of respect, Fr Christopher Jamison, Sr Catherine Holum from the Franciscan Sisters of the Renewal in Leeds, and David Wells. There will also be a time for testimony. The organisers did consider having a Mass, but in the end, recalling the stunning silence of a more than a miliion people in Hyde Park after Pope Benedict placed the Blessed Sacrament on the altar, it was decided to have a time of silent Adoration at the Flane Congress. This will be lead by Archbishop Vincent Nichols.
Organisers say that 8,000 young people have already booked. Hexham and Newcastle Diocese have hired a train - dubbed the 'Flame Train' to bring their young people to Wembley. It is already fully booked but more will be coming on the usual scheduled service. Many youth groups are making a weekend of it coming to London for the weekend and taking in some sightseeing and theatre.
One organiser said: "It's not always easy being a young Catholic in today's world. But at an event like this, young people can find strength, inspiration and the excitement of realising they are not alone - in fact there are some quite cool Christians out there."
We will be bringing more information about the Flame Congress in future reports. To book your seats now see: http://www.cymfed.org/flame