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Making the best of the summer...

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CatholicYouthMinistry.com has an interesting piece on how to make the best of summer. Have a look...

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The art of asking

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The things being discussed in this video could have fascinating youth ministry implications...

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Current Thoughts No. 6: What does success look like?

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Often, when something isn't that good, the reason is because nobody actually knows what good looks like. If a ship has no idea where it's meant to be heading then of course it's going to be permanently lost, and it's the same with any form of youth ministry. If we don't know what we're trying to do, then we're very unlikely to do it.

That's one problem: that we don't know what good or what success look like. An alternative, yet very connected, problem is that we think we do know what it looks like but that we're woefully wrong.

With reference to the last post in this series, I think this is why I don't like the whole 'sowing seeds' thing. Sure, seeds may well get sown and they may well grow, but all too often we allow ourselves to see 'sowing seeds' as our aim and our mark of success when in fact it is nothing more than a vague, unrealised hope. Add to that the armies of youth ministers who see success as an event going well or as having some positive conversations and you start to build up a picture. Not a picture of failure as much as a picture of excuses which permit us not to even contemplate failure.

So, what are we trying to do in Catholic Youth Ministry? What does success look like?

To put it simply, success looks like committed young Catholics. Catholics who practice their faith by receiving the Sacraments, who have a lively prayer-life, who make their faith the key part of their decision-making, who live by the Church's teachings, and who are willing to say both to themselves and to the world that their faith is the centre of their lives.

That's what success looks like. And if your ministry is successful, then it is taking apathetic, lapsed Catholics, or even complete unbelievers, and turning them into nothing less than that.

Of course, we all know that. But then, we allow ourselves to swallow excuses along the way. We allow ourselves to settle for half of that or for the hope that we have sown a seed that might, maybe, perhaps, one day, turn into something vaguely approaching that.

One of my favourite parts of the Gospels is the story of the seventy two from Luke's Gospel. Jesus sends them out to preach and they return saying 'we saw Satan fall.' I just love that line. The excitement and the joy of the encounters they had must have been amazing. They trusted the Gospel to do it's job and they saw amazing things. It's a great model for ministry. What they didn't say when they returned was, 'well, we had some good conversations and ran some good sessions, and we really think that when they've got married and had kids some of them might come to back!'. No. They ministered, and they saw results!

At this point there are two distinct dangers. The first is to be frustrated when we don't always see immediate results. After all, even Jesus couldn't convince everybody. He and his apostles had to shake the dust from their feet more than a few times. So, the first danger is to think that we always have to see immediate results. The second is to use that as an excuse for never seeing immediate results.

It can be done. If you don't believe it can then you're in the wrong job!

More to follow...

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NCYC Promo videos

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This november sees the bi-annual (i.e. every two years) National Catholic Youth Convention in the US. This time, being held in Indianapolis. Thanks to the Catholic Youth Ministry Blog, I've just noticed that they have some awesome promo videos.

The rest are here.

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Ken Robinson: How to escape education's death valley...

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Fascinating food-for-thought...

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Why we do what we do

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Brilliant article from Clayton Imoo...

I received a CD in the mail this week - the first release from a very talented young lady named Renee Geronimo. I have known Renee for over 10 years now through youth ministry and while we never super-close friends, I have followed her (in a non-stalkerish way) over the past few years on Facebook as she furthered her music career. Thus, I was absolutely thrilled when she messaged me in mid-April offering to send me a copy of her new CD called "lilies and sparrows".

Upon receiving the CD, I immediately popped it into my computer and listened to it on repeat throughout my work day. It is a wonderful collection of songs, each one with its own unique style and feel. There's a bit for everyone: some pop, some folk, some soul and some worship. And over-arching the entire CD is the theme of God's love and power - you can really sense Renee's love for God and devotion to her faith. Have a listen to the entire CD here.

However, even more touching than the music was the simple hand-written note that Renee included in the package. With her permission...

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Dioceses Celebrate U.S. World Youth Day Ahead of WYD ’13

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New York and Texas Gather Thousands of Youth in Hopes of Strengthening Faith

BY JACQUELINE BURKEPILE

The Archdiocese of New York held its first New York Catholic Youth Day on April 6 at the College of Mount St. Vincent in Riverdale, N.Y. With more than 1,500 youth and young adults present, the theme for the event was "Rejoice in the Lord Always," from Philippians 4:4. The diocese held the event to recognize U.S. World Youth Day, typically held on the 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time. Originally scheduled for November, it was rescheduled due to Hurricane Sandy.

The day consisted of music, entertainment, workshops, adoration, confession and a food drive led by Catholic Charities. Featured guests included Father Agustino Torres and Father Stan Fortuna of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, the Full Armor Band and Cardinal Timothy Dolan, who celebrated Mass for the participants.

Cynthia Martinez, associate director of youth ministry for the Archdiocese of New York, hoped the youth left the event on fire for the love of Christ.

"We hope the participants left with a greater sense of community, not only with their own parishes and/or schools, but with the rest of the archdiocese. Also, that they had an experience of the joy of Our Lord, as highlighted by the theme," said Martinez.

Father Stephan Norton, pastor of St. Benedict's Catholic Church in the Bronx, N.Y., led a workshop for youth ministers. He hopes they took away inspiration that will influence youth on a parish level.

"I hope I filled the youth ministers with a renewed vigor in the faith that will impact the youth," said Father Norton. "My hope and prayer is that the youth ministers were once again on fire with the gift of the Holy Spirit in this Year of Faith."

Full Armor Band helped provide music for the event. Lead vocalist Douglas Hutchings was amazed by the spiritual transitions the youth made throughout the day

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Dear Youth Leader...

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Brilliant stuff from ChristianPost.com. Here's a slice...

Dear Youth Leader,

As you read this letter perhaps it's 9:25pm on a Wednesday night. The last teenager and adult volunteer have left the building and you're stuck folding the metal chairs and doing your best to clean the youth room so the church custodian doesn't get mad at you…again.

To add insult to spilt Coke, tonight may have been one of "those" nights for you. Your jokes fell flat and that group of arrogant churchy kids (who always sit in the back left corner) were mocking you with whispers from their giggling Pharisee paradise. The preacher's kid glared at you, daring you to call out daddy's dearest in public. You took his dare and was met with rolling eyes and heavy sighs by him and his sarcastic posse.

Down deep inside you may be wondering if you're making a difference at all. You're scrolling through your weekly to do list and it may seem more like meetings than mission. You're tired of the stress youth ministry triggers at home, at church and, most of all, down deep inside your own heart.

You may be thinking about giving up.

You may be wondering if it's worth the small paychecks and big headaches.

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Building A Team Of Volunteers (Who Aren't Just Like You)

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Great stuff from YM360.com. Here's a slice...

One afternoon, our youth ministry organized a service day for our teenagers at a local food bank. Mark, a sophomore in high school, was one of the students who had been assigned to ride with me. As we walked to the parking lot together, he asked if John, a youth leader on our team, was coming.

When I told him John wasn't able to make it to that event, Mark replied, "That's too bad. He has a lot cooler music in his car than you do."

While some in that situation might have been offended, I wasn't. I was grateful. Mark was a pretty unique teenager, and while I enjoyed hanging out with him, no one on our team could connect with him like John.

You probably have a similar story in your youth ministry: There's a student you've never really been able to connect with, but who really has a great relationship with another leader. If you think your students, you'll likely notice that certain students tend to gravitate towards certain leaders because of their personality, background, or age.

If students tend to connect with leaders they can identify with, what does that say about the kind of team of leaders we should be building?

As you build and lead your team, do you put much thought into the fact that a more diverse team will be able to serve a more diverse group of teenagers? In case it's not something you've every considered before, here are three things to keep in mind as you build your team:

Make an effort to recruit leaders who are unlike you.

You probably already know that the best way to recruit leaders is to invite them personally. The problem is that our default mode is to invite leaders who tend to be like us. If we only recruit leaders to our team who are like us, then we're in danger of building teams who can connect only to teenagers who are like us. Get the picture?

To serve a diverse team of teenagers, we need to invite people who are not like us to be on our team; people who might have different tastes in music, different personalities, different experiences, and so on.

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Relational Ministry 101

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Great advice from Clayton Imoo. Have a look...

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How to take negative feedback from a parent

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Brilliant stuff from CatholicYouthMinistry.com. Here's a slice...

"Hi Kenn, I need to talk to you about last night's teen life event. Can you call me?" Ever get that phone message in your voicemail? I love working with parents, but that voicemail always sends a chill down my spine and immediately gets me asking "what could they possibly want? And what if it's bad feed back?"

Negative feedback is not something we should fear in ministry. I've actually found it to be quite useful. And, here are the tips you can follow to make it useful in your ministry:

Listen: When I get feedback, I tend to have the habit of starting to mentally defend myself and come up with reasons why the feedback I'm receiving is wrong. Stop doing that because it isn't helpful. Genuinely try and listen to what the parent is saying to you. I find writing down notes is helpful in this. Remember, the reason the parent is giving you feedback is because they want the best for their teen. And, this is what you want as well.

Ask good follow up questions: Get specifics. Let the parents tell you their story, but ask questions to fill in the story. If a parent tells you someone was picking on their kid ask who. If the parent tells you a CORE member said something negative in small groups, ask what it was. If a teen didn't like the game you played, ask why not. Asking goof follow up questions help you get the whole picture because, regardless of your parents' intentions, they are telling you a story they heard second hand or from their own perspective.

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Is your life your message..?

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Is your life your message? A question posed by Ghandi, and also by this excellent post at YouthLeadersAcademy.com...

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Do not be content with a mediocre faith...

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One thing I've been reflecting on a lot lately is how many people there are who believe in the Gospel and then just sort of put it to the back of their minds.

To serious believers, it's just nuts!

A priest friend of mine used to say that the Gospel is either completely false or completely true. There's nothing in between. It's not going to be half true, or true for some people, or some of the time etc etc. It's either totally true or it's not. It either changes everything, or it changes nothing. Once again, there's nothing in between.

But yet, millions of people have found just that - something in between. A way to make the Gospel half true, and so to put it into the background. The 2011 UK census reports that 59% of people self-identify as Christian. Yet, a 2007 Tearfund survey suggests that only 7% if us go to Church every week. So, in other words, 51% of people in the UK have found that something in between.

I mention this because Pope Francis had something to say a few days back about not being content with a mediocre faith, by which, I guess, he means that something in between. Take a look...

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A post-Christian Gospel

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I've just discovered a site called Average Youth Ministry, and an article about the Post-Christian Gospel. Here's a slice...

It is overwhelmingly obvious that the landscape in which we do ministry has changed. The values, morals, expectations, and biblical understanding have been completely turned on its head. If we continue to do ministry the same as we have always done it, with the same assumptions then over the long haul the Church is going to find herself in trouble.

Last week I wrote a little about how the gospel is really not good news at all this this current generation of students. And while many of our students "play ball" for us while they are under our supervision or while they frequent our programs, who they are in the rest of their life has little to no reflection of traditional, Judeo-Christian, ethic, values, or understanding. If this assumption is correct then the penal-subsitutionary atonement brand of Christianity with the discipleship bench marks of shutting down sexuality or not drinking have to change.

Here is a gospel message that seems to be actually be good news to my post-modern, post-Christian kids:

I find it interesting that Jesus first words to people were not a fire brand, repent for the kingdom of God is near. John the Baptist had that ministry and it was pretty successful until he got his head cut off. When you read through the Gospels, Jesus does have some stern words for the self-rightesou, but does seem to have an entirely different approach to the alienated and disenfranchised.

I would argue that our young people have much more in common with the alienated than with the rebellious sinners or self-righteous. And if that is true, the we can look and see how Jesus engages people, and when he does, it is rarely with confronting language, or finger pointing, or even rebuke. Jesus simply invites:

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Current thoughts: No. 5 - Two things we need to drop right now!

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Now that we've nailed down what the problem is, sort of, we need to move forward.

To me, moving forward means shedding the things that we know don't work, the things that just hold us back and give us excuses.

There are two of those I'd like to tackle immediately. Two conversations, or pieces of language, that have no place in successful ministry.

Firstly we need to stop having conversations that go something like: just because… Doesn't mean he's not a good Catholic. You know the ones: just because he doesn't go to Mass… Just because he's living with his girlfriend… Just because he doesn't agree with the Church's teaching on [insert very important teaching here]... doesn't mean he/ she/ whoever isn't a good Catholic.

We've all heard that one, right?

And the second thing that I think we need to finally drop is talk about 'sowing seeds.'

Don't get me wrong, I think that seeds genuinely are planted a lot of the time, and I think that what is planted can come to fruition years later (though it mostly doesn't, if we're honest). I also love Oscar Romero and his seed prayer, and I completely understand that faith is often an evolving process and not something that happens in a flash.

However, let me put it this way… Whenever I'm involved with a project, one question I always ask is what success the project is having. Anybody serious about their work should be able to answer that one quickly and thoroughly. When I ask that question and the only answer I get is 'well we're sowing seeds...' I know that there's a big problem.

Both conversations have their good points. Both conversations can be valid and can carry some truth. However, my problem with the first is that it allows us to lower the bar, and my problem with the second is that it gives us an excuse to cover up failure.

If we have to talk about people who have major areas of weakness in their lives, at the very least it's a big problem. Those people may be good in a great many ways, and they may be close to God in a great many ways, but they objectively have a problem. Similarly, while sowing seeds is a good and noble pursuit, if it's all we can point to when were asked about the success of our project, with no actual tangible harvest to show, then again, we objectively have a big problem.

So here's my suggestion… Let's agree that people with major weaknesses in their lives can still be good people. Let's agree that seeds are planted by our work and that those seeds may one day come to harvest, and then... let's stop talking about those things. Let's agree that if we have to talk about those things then something has already gone wrong.

Instead, let's commit ourselves to tangible results in here and now. If we can't actually do that, then we don't belong in this field!

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Current thoughts: No. 4 - So, what's causing the problem?

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Following the first three posts in this series, it's now time to zero-in on what I think might be causing the problem.

What I come up with will obviously be fallible, but hopefully it won't be too subjective, by which I mean that I hopefully won't just be tying the problem to things I know I don't like. That's what seems to happen with most of this sort of article, and it's really not helpful.

I think I would divide the problem into three areas. 

Firstly, to quote Cardinals Suenens, Catholics these days of being sacramentalised, but not evangelised. They're being put through programmes, classes and other assorted experiences which are giving them bits of knowledge and discipline, or even great experiences, without ever actually inviting them to get to know Jesus Christ in any sort of real, powerful way. His truth, his power, his challenge for their lives.

Secondly, their day-to-day experience of Christian community neither inspires nor challenges them. They just find it a little dull. It doesn't link the gospel to their everyday lives and help them to see how life-giving it really is. It doesn't give them what the Church often calls zeal; it doesn't challenge them to change the things in their lives which are wrong.

And, thirdly, there is a lack of supportive loving communities to which young people can belong. Faith is ultimately a community thing. It's not meant to be lived alone, and so it's much harder if you have to wade through it without the support of a loving, close group of like-minded people.

I'll leave this post there. Obviously, these ideas will be expanded far more in upcoming posts, but essentially, this is what I see as the problem.

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